For some reason, it is important to remember that when mental pain comes from a man, many people ignore it, but it also hurts men. Whether we like to admit it or not, emotional pain is just as bad for women as it is for us.
Men are often treated as masculine and rude but not all men fit the stereotype. They try to look like themselves but they do not. This can affect them in the same way that women do with regard to female stereotypes. Sometimes men find it difficult to express their feelings and we do not see that they are facing something serious, but that does not mean that they are not.
You see, men and women are not different enough to be trusted by men. Below is a list of things men do when they feel mentally broken or broken. When you see him doing these things in your life, stop and ask him if he is okay and let him know how much you appreciate him. Maybe that’s what he wants. He loves differently than a man who is not hurt and you should know that.
1. He never talks about his problems.
If your partner refuses to talk about what is going on in their life, they are more likely to be bottlers. Bottling is not a good thing. When we bottle our emotions, we subdue our insides to the point where we explode.
He likes to talk about things he doesn’t know but he doesn’t want to look weak but he can’t help it. Poor withdrawal is not an option.
2. He seems to have it all together to the extreme.
You see, on the outside, he looks normal but on the inside, he is fighting with himself. He tried to compensate more by maintaining the exterior than most people. This is not true for every human being, but one thing that seems to apply to many of them.
You may want a man who has it all together, and even if he looks perfect, you have to read the cracks carefully to see things like this. Do you know someone like this?
3. He seems to get cold from time to time.
Have you noticed a slight change in your partner? Does anything, in general, seem to have cooled him in general? This could be a sign that he is dealing with something emotional. Of course, this may be a sign that your man is a fool, but it is important to consider what happened in his past.
Even when the smallest problem arises, he allows both men and women to be thrown out, mentally broken, or hurt. They see that it is not worth dealing with and even then they are not sure how to do it.
4. He retains his emotions.
He does not really say everything you want to say but you know that he feels and thinks it. The reason is that he finds it difficult to embrace his emotional side. He knows that if he embraces his emotional side, those negative upheavals will also arise.
He wants to tell you all about it, but he doesn’t know how to handle everything that comes with it. ‘This is something that takes a long time to work.
You need to weigh the good with the bad about being with an emotionally broken man and decide if the relationship is worth it to you by measuring the relationship of men on the opposite end. We cannot avoid falling in love with some people, but we should know that you get what you see and changing others is usually not an option. You can help them with things but you can not remove their harm. They have to do it alone.
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